People Will ALWAYS Be Attracted To “Sexy”
It’s as old as the hills…
Heck…
It’s genetic…
It’s Biblical
People will ALWAYS be attracted to “sexy”
People will always be attracted to INSTANT
People will always be attracted to “Buy Now-Pay Later”
And I completely understand why…
Heck…
I was the QUEEN of something for nothing deals back in the day.
I ran myself BROKE and FAT trying to get SKINNY and RICH with little to no work.
And I do mean broke.
We are talking $40k in credit card debt and
knowing all the debt collectors on a first name basis.
And I do mean fat.
We’re talking over 100 pounds of extra “junk in my trunk”
If there was a Lose Weight Fast program or pill out there…
I bought it.
Diet books, Tony Little Gazelles, Deal a Meals
You get the picture.
And for getting rich we had the Dave Del Dotto real Estate course
Tony Robbins low cost seminars where I bought THOUSANDS of dollars worth of stuff
that I was SURE would give me what I wanted in 90 days or less…
All kinds of stuff.
Man O MAN did the direct marketers LOVE me.
I swear they had a red star next to my name on their mailing lists
The gold star stood for SHE’LL BUY ANYTHING!!!
So yes…I too was attracted to sexy..
Instant
and OVERNIGHT.
But here’s where it get’s STRANGE.
What would be the #1 thing I would buy into…
Me..the fat broke chick….
Well…what else but a deal where I could get rich and skinny at the SAME TIME of course!!!
And so it all began.
Ten years ago.
When I got into a weight loss MLM.
But here is where things became DIFFERENT than lat time.
Within 6 months of beginning the deal I was introduced to something I had never
experienced before….
Prosperity PHILOSOPHY
And just like being attracted to sexy and instant is as old as the hills
So is PROSPERITY CONSCIOUSNESS
Go read Proverbs…
Go read Confuscious
And so I began a quest to trace back success principles and to study
with some of the most prominent “business philosophers” out there.
Because I quickly came to understand that the definition of “sexy”
will ALWAYS change…and therefore leave those that use “sexy” as their attractor factor
high and dry pretty darn quickly…
Where prosperity priciples are TIMELESS
And in the end this is where LASTING success lies.
IN THOUGHT
IN UNDERSTANDING
IN WISDOM
The crazy part is that learning these principles was in fact the lazyest and quickest thing I could have done
as now money is no longer an issue and it is almost effortless to produce.
It’s actually FUN! Kind of a GAME.
True prosperity is moving into PASSION where you spend your days doing what you LOVE
and income streams towards you from all angles.
True prosperity is when you can see income opportunites all around you that you could never see before.
(This is why most of the GURU types end up in so many arenas…they can SEE money everywhere)
This is why we see those that study the prosperity principles constantly attract all the best partners and venues for
income production where so many others STRUGGLE or have one success and then fade from the forefront.
People will always be attracted to “sexy”
Nothing can stop that
Used to get me very frustrated to see so many good people
fall for things that I knew would be gone in a short period of time…
But now I accept what will never change.
But what I do know…
Is that with maturity what ones sees as “sexy” changes.
Who a man wants to date and who a man wants to marry are often very different women.
Where a new marketer wants to begin his career and where he wants to build his lasting entity
are often two very different things as well.
And so I began to look for MATURE people who could see
just how darn “sexy” what I have to offer is.
FREEDOM is sexy no matter what century we are in.
It was in 1783
It was in 1865
It was in 1968
And it is in 2010 and beyond.
It’s just the definitions that change.
And it is my opinion that today and in the future
Freedom will not be about a call to arms
Or a sit in at a lunch counter
It will be about freedom of BEING
And freedom of finances-
SELF SUFFICIENCY
And those things are VERY sexy
As they lie in a man’s THOUGHT
Just as Napoleon Hill and Wallace Wattles described 100 years ago.
Your FREEDOM…
And ALL that is TRULY sexy in life…
Lies in THOUGHT.
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It’s 2010 and they are on to us!
When was the last time someone in your business did something that made you uncomfortable?
What did they do?
Public opinion tells us that MLMers hounding and hunting people down with the wicked smell of commission breath isn’t going to fly in today’s world!
Let me share with you an example that happened just last week.
I was at a coffee shop with my attorney, discussing some legal matters that had nothing to do with my Network Marketing business.
Suddenly I felt someone staring. When I looked up, I saw a gentleman who is a distributor in the same company that I’m involved with. He waves and then goes to get himself a coffee.
A little while later he comes over to our table and interrupts us to say hello.
After he says hello and asks how I’m doing, he turns to my attorney and says, “So, you looking at our business?”
She looks at him puzzled, a look of what-are-you-talking- about?
He continues (to puke out) “That’s great if you are, because this guy (referring to me) is awesome; you are in great hands.”
She again looks puzzled.
He then makes some comment about my tremendous training ability with experienced distributors, says good bye and makes his way toward the door.
She looks at me and asks: what was that, and who was that?
My response was: just a guy I work with.
I could tell she was thinking, with concern: what kind of business are you in?
One of the main problems here is that this gentleman leaves the coffee shop thinking that he just did me a favor! But in fact, he creeped this lady out and he doesn’t even know any better. It’s what he is being taught!
When you leave the house in search of anyone or anything to join your business, YOU ARE NOT going to recruit quality prospects. You must learn to market professionally, and target people who are looking for your business.
When you chase something IT WILL RUN!
The industry has been approaching people with such a lack of professionalism for 40 years and they are sick of it!
Let’s stop chasing them and have them chase us!
There are better ways, professional ways, and effective ways to build a MLM business in the year 2010 and beyond.
We all need to learn these ways and change this industry for the better!
To your success,
Carrie Loibl
Top Biz Trainer
P.S. Life is good, and getting better every day! Make a difference in someone else’s financial situation.
I love what you have said here. Gets me thinking about things.
Sharol
Diane,
Love your wonderful wordplay and message here!
Always enjoy the wisdom you provide to this industry.
- Yo
I really liked this post today.
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